In loving, we want to give something that he/she likes.
Liking is an effect, a result of receiving likeable things, raising our happiness.
Loving is a cause, which when we feel, we want to make the other person happy.
Philosophical and spiritual musings
If the whole creation is part of God, including our own minds, where is the scope of free will? The thought that we have free will may also be a step on the unchangeable endless path, no?
Perhaps free will is relative. Humans have more free will than animals, animals have more than trees and stones think trees are hippies. In the bracket of consciousness where human beings operate, in the bracket addressing which all scriptures are written, both free will and fate are felt to exist. But in the biggest scenario, the unfolding of creation is a massive roll of the fate barrel following the primordial shove of free will, once and only once.
If we expect a bad outcome, we should try it out immediately, because there is always a chance that the outcome may be good. Undone, it sits as a bad possibility alone.
Similarly, if an outcome is expected to be good, we should delay the event as much as possible and enjoy the expectation, for, who knows, the outcome may well be bad.