We see so many posts and nice pithy write ups that encourage us to recognise and appreciate our friends.
The goal of having friends seems to emerge from my need of a support group, people from whom care and pampering can flow to me, who can try to fill some hole, some incompleteness inside me.
If we wish to grow as human beings, and in our role as friends, I feel we should focus more on being a friend than in needing a friend.
So let's see a series starting "You know you have been a good friend when..."
